Blessed With Brothers

A Muslimah’s Day to Day Life

My Random Checking February 23, 2009

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I’m sure you’ve heard about how Muslims have a hard time with security when they go on flights. Personally I HAD never experienced any discrimination of any type. Maybe it’s because the flights I’ve gone on have been international with Muslim airlines 🙂 I think Baba Ali does a good job at explaining what happens. In case you don’t know what I’m talking about, you’re pretty much pulled out of line “randomly” and checked by an officer; a pat down.

Recently, me and my family did take a domestic flight and I got a first hand experience of the “random checking.” I was wearing a beautiful black abiya with a pink design on it, and a pink hijab. I thought I looked friendly. I walked through the metal detectors, no sounds, no beeps. The security guard asked to see my boarding pass, then asked me to step into this clear box, essentially four glass walls. There was a chair in there, so I sat. I asked the officer if I had gone off in the detector and he said no. Actually I loved his response. He made is sound like I won a contest 🙂 “No, you’ve just been chosen for random checking!” like with the announcer type voice. It was weird, kinda embarrassing. I mean people are walking by and just looking at you, like as if you’ve done something wrong. You were standing there with no shoes and being patted down, the lady even had to pat my hijab! I had heard Imam Siraj’s lecture about this and never fully understood the experience. Also, my brother was “randomly” chosen; how random.

I understand the situation and the circumstances; I mean I don’t see why they would pull a little old lady out of line. But still, it’s not as random as they want us to think.


Muslims in China February 16, 2009

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I’ve always had an interest with the Muslims in East Asia. If I could travel anywhere in Asia, I would love to go to visit China or Japan. My dad lived in Japan for a few years, during his elementary and middle school years and my uncle lives there now. I really want to see the place he lived and the masjids there. East Asia is just so interesting. 🙂

I wikied Chinese Muslims just to get some history (I know, not the best source) and it turns out that Muslim convoys went to China during the rule of Uthman (ra) under the leadership of Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqas (ra). Muslims live in almost every region of China. The highest numbers are found in the northwest provinces of Xinjiang, Gansu, and Ningxia, with significant populations also found throughout Yunnan province in southwest China and Henan Province in central China. Here’s a map, just to put things in perspective. BBC gives a large range of the number of Muslims living in China; between 20-100 million.

When we went for Umrah 7 years ago, our hotel clerk was Chinese. My dad said that some Chinese Muslims came to Saudi Arabia for Hajj and stayed there on political asylum. The clerk spoke fluent Arabic and had never been to China.

I think the architecture of there masjids are amazing. This just proves that Islam doesn’t disregard culture, as some people claim. Their masjids are full of culture! The style and design of the masjids are so unique! Some aspects of culture go along with the deen, and therefore can be kept. When an aspect of culture goes against the deen, then that part should be dropped and avoided.

I also find the East Asian Muslim’s appearance amazing. Mash’Allah, they’re just so unique, because they don’t look like the “typical” Muslim (Although I’m not sure if there is a “typical” Muslim anymore). The universality and vastness of Islam is clear. Just google Chinese Muslims, Muslims in China, etc. and see the awesome diversity of the Muslim Ummah. 🙂



Trip to Texas January 20, 2009

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WOW this post is looooong overdue! SubhanAllah, we’ve been back from Texas for like a month! I started writing this post like a day after I got back, and have been so lack about finishing it! I was having trouble with uploading the photo album, but it’s working now Alhumdulilla!!

Over winter break my family was blessed with the opportunity to attend Texas Dawah Convention. This was our first visit to the convention and to Houston. How many miles are between the DC area and Houston, TX? According to Google Map we covered 1, 391 miles, which was ideally supposed to take 21 hours and 22 mins. Our trip was longer than that, but Alhumdulilla it was a good experience 🙂

It took us two days to drive, so we stopped over in Birmingham, AL. Alhumdulilla, while in Alabama, we got to attend Fajr at the Hoover Crescent Islamic Center. The masjid was converted from a church and Mash’Allah a nice facility. The Qir’aat was amazing and the whole feel of the Masjid was blessed. While praying I couldn’t help but think about how far Islam has spread around the world.

We also got to visit a masjid in Hattiesburg, Mississippi on our second day of driving. The Islamic Center of Hattiesburg was not as glamorous as the last masjid by any means.But Subhan’Allah, just knowing that Muslims were here, worshiping Allah,was really amazing. It’s hard to describe in words.

We arrived in Houston two days before the convention for “sightseeing.” I put that in quotes because our concept of sightseeing is a little different. We didn’t go the Gulf of Mexico, the NASA Space Center or the San Jacinto Monument.(In fact I’m not sure if those are tourist “hotspots,” I’m guessing) Instead we went “masjid hopping,” Alhumdulilla 🙂 The term “masjid hopping” refers to the act of going around to different masjids just for the heck of seeing masajids and Muslim communities 🙂

The first masjid we saw in Houston was the Adel Road Masjid, or Masjid Bilal. (AKA “Adil” Road Masjid to the local aunties) It was undergoing renovation, but Mash’Allah another magnificently built mosque. We went in and Alhumdulilla we hear children reviewing the Quran 🙂

Other masjids we visited included Masjid Hamza and Masjid El-Farouq. My brothers and dad also got a chance to visit the Stafford Masjid.

Both masjids were amazing! Masjid Hamza had been damaged by Hurricane Ike and was getting re-carpeted. There was a halaqa going on upstairs in Arabic.

Masjid El-Farouq made you feel like you had stepped into an Arab country. Mash’Allah I’ve never seen such a magnificent masjid in America. It was landscaped beautifully and was probably the cleanest masjid I’ve ever seen. The Qiraat there made your heart melt and it gave you an eman rush 🙂 It was right next door to Dar us-Salaam bookstore, which we also visited 🙂 I got a nice abaya from there 😀

We got to downtown a day before the convention started and got to visit the Islamic Dawah Center. I think it was nice to have a masjid right in downtown, Mash’Allah. The guy who worked there said it functioned more like a non-profit organization, instead of a masjid. So it wasn’t open for daily salah, it closed at like 5. It was converted from an old bank and one of the main proponents of the masjid was Hakeem Olajuwon, the retired basketball player. The vault in the basement had Islamic artifacts, definitely not the typical masjid.

The convention was in the George R. Brown Convention Center. Alhumdulilla, the convention was awesome. It was different than other conventions I have been to, because there was more of a focus on attending the lectures. The bazaar was definitely smaller than other major conventions. This was a good reason for people to go listen to the lectures, instead of loitering in the bazaar.

We got a chance to hear lots of speakers including Yasir Qadhi, Abdulbary Yahya, Ibrahim Dremali, Yaser Birjas, Nouman Ali Khan and Waleed Basyouni.

One of my favorite lectures would have to be Sh. Ibrahim Dremali’s. His topic was called “My Ummah, My Ummah.” He talked about how the Prophet (s) loved this ummah, and was worried about us getting into Jannah. He was so concerned for us and cared so deeply for us, it’s sad to see the Muslims throw Islam behind their backs and still claim to love the Prophet (s). It was a moving lecture; you had to be there. By the end of the lecture the whole auditorium had tears rolling down their eyes. In fact, he himself started crying while delivering the speech.

One thing which was unique from other conventions was the “Chai Chat.” This was a night session where Sh. Yasir Qadhi and Sh. Yaser Birjas discussed the meat issue. “The meet on meat.” It was good, and both Shaykhs gave alternative view points, mainly about eating chicken. However at the end, very few people ended up changing their minds about the meat they eat 🙂 On a side note, both shaykhs happend to wear the exact same shalwar khameez and that happened to be unplanned!

Another thing which was unique about this convention was the talent show. The winners were four cute kids who were really good at rapping! I didn’t catch the words the main “rapper” was saying, because it was waaaaay too fast. But Mash’Allah they were cute and invited back to perform the next day during the night show. Also during the talent show, someone accepted Islam, Alhumdulilla. He had left his family’s Christmas dinner to come to the convention center and take his Shahada, according to Sh. Yasir Qadhi 🙂

Alhumduilla, it was a fun trip and I definitely miss the weather a lot! 😦 Hope everyone likes the pics! 🙂