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Choosing Our Friends April 23, 2009

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As you might know, Emad Al-Mansary is one of my favorite recitors. Mash’Allah he has just amazingly awesome qirat! ๐Ÿ™‚ I have his Surah Al-Furqan on my IPOD, for some reason I can’t find it online anywhere, or I so would have put the link up! :/

Surah Al-Furqaan has one distinct verse which always stands out when Emad Al-Mansary recites it; he just emphasizes the verse so much in his recitation. This would be ayah number 28 and continuing on to ayah 29:

ayah28“Ah! Woe to me! Would that I had never taken so-and-so as a Khalil (close friend!)”

ayah29“He indeed led me astray from the Reminder (this Quran) after it had come to me And Shaytan is to man ever a deserter in the hour of need.”

These two ayahs talk about the Day of Judgment and when the Zalim, or wrongdoer, will regret what they did in this dunya. They will regret making friends with people who led them astray from the truth. It’s true that friends can have a major impact on the decisions you make in life everyday. I was actually teaching this concept to my second graders a few classes ago and we even talked about how having no friends is better than having bad friends.

In fact, one day in my developmental psychology class we were discussing about middle school students. Did you know that if a child begins to act delinquent during their middle school years, it’s because of the friends they have? Interesting.

It’s really amazing how much is jam packed into the Quran, but we are too “busy” to open it and see what Allah has to say to us. Try your best to open, read, study and memorize the Quran every single day. After all, shouldn’t we all be companions of the Quran?


3 Responses to “Choosing Our Friends”

  1. Muslim Girl Says:

    Wow, this is a really good subject to think about. It’s so amazing how every tiny detail on how to live our lives can already be found in the Quran.

    The best friends are those who remind you to fear Allah and help you to become a better person yourself ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. mehar Says:

    MashAllah very well written. True! we do not think how we have chosen our lives, as if it is ever-lasting!
    May allah give us hidayah for the best of both the world.

  3. shey zai yah Says:

    this is SO true. MashAllah good post & reminder.

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